Correspondence to:
ICSA
P.O. Box 2265
Bonita Springs, FL 34133
fax: 732-352-6818
Ph: 239-514-3081
E-Mail: mail@icsamail.com
The International Cultic Studies Association (ICSA) has run workshops for former members of high-demand, “cultic” groups for many years. In recent years increasing numbers of people born or raised in such groups (i.e., “second generation adults” - SGAs) have attended these workshops. These ex-members have special needs, which can be most effectively addressed through a workshop that focuses on them. SGAs do not have a “pre-cult identity” to which they can return. SGAs raised in fringe subcultures have to learn the implicit rules and expectations of mainstream culture. SGAs frequently have educational and other skill deficits that interfere with adjustment to mainstream culture. Having grown up in high-control groups that are often based on irrational belief systems, SGAs tend to struggle with issues of dependency, self-esteem, and social conflict. Because many SGAs were physically or sexually abused, they often have to deal with anger, resentment, and other emotions related to trauma.
This workshop will address the needs of SGAs through a series of brief didactic presentations (supplemented by written handouts) followed by discussions, to which attendees may contribute according to their comfort levels. Specifically, the workshop will address:
§ critical thinking
§ socialization, culture shock, and acculturation
§ psychological development, child abuse and neglect, parenting styles, boundaries, and trust
§ long-term psychological, educational, and emotional effects of growing up in a culture of abuse and neglect
§ relationships with families and others
This workshop has been made possible by a private grant and the willingness of facilitators to volunteer large amounts of their time. Without the dedication of these people, registration fees would be much higher than what is listed below.
The grant covers a substantial portion of the total cost. Therefore, the fees listed below reflect a significant discount. Because many SGAs struggle economically, additional financial assistance is available for those in need. If you would like to apply for financial assistance, please contact us.
The conference center (http://www.trinitywallstreet.org/center/index.html) is located on a bend in the Housatonic River, just a half-mile from the covered bridge in the foothills of the Berkshire Mountains, on 500 forested acres. The Center is two hours from New York, an hour-and-a-half from Albany, three hours from Boston, and an hour from Hartford and Bradley International Airport (BDL). Contact us if you plan to fly (Hartford’s Bradley Airport would be the closest airport) and will need ground transportation to the conference center.
FEES
Fees include sleeping accommodations (Friday and Saturday) and meals (Friday dinner, Saturday breakfast, lunch, and dinner, and Sunday breakfast and lunch). Double occupancy (please tell us your roommate’s name or request that we assign a roommate): $130 per person. Single occupancy: $230 per person.
REGISTRATION
Please send us (see top for contact information) a note indicating your interest in attending (SGAs ONLY!) and your name, address, phone(s), and e-mail along with a check (made out to ICSA) or Visa or MasterCard number and expiration date. Or, use the registration form below.
Contact us if you would like to apply for financial assistance.
SPACE IS LIMITED, SO PLEASE REGISTER ASAP.
Registration Form
Name(s):
Address:
City:
State:
Zip:
Country:
Phone(s)/Fax:
E-mail (Important!):
Payment: [ ] Check [ ] Visa [ ] MasterCard
CC no:____________________________________________________
CC exp: __________________
Use the table below to calculate the amount due. All rates are per person and include meals (Friday dinner through Sunday lunch) and Friday and Saturday accommodations. Directions and other information will be sent after you register. If you have questions, contact ICSA at (239)-514-3081 or mail@icsamail.com
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Double Occupancy |
$130 |
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Single Occupancy |
$230 |
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Double Occupancy
If you have a roommate, please tell us his/her name? ___________________________________
Do you want us to assign you a roommate? Yes [ ] No [ ]
Group Info
What is the name of the group you belonged to (for each registrant)? __________________________
How long have you been out of the group? ____________________
THE FACILITATORS
Leona Furnari, MSW is a licensed clinical social worker in Boulder Colorado. She is a psychotherapist specializing in recovery from trauma, including recovery from abusive groups and relationships. Ms. Furnari is a former member of an Eastern/New Age group, and it was that experience that led to her commitment to help others recover from abusive groups. She has been a regular facilitator/presenter at ICSA's Recovery Workshops in Estes Park, CO for the last four years. She also works as a school social worker at the middle school level, and facilitates support groups for adolescents dealing with grief, family change and peer relationships.
Carol Giambalvo is an ex-cult member who has been a Thought Reform Consultant since 1984 and a cofounder of reFOCUS, a national support network for former cult members. She is on ICSA’s Board of Directors, Director of ICSA’s Recovery Programs, and is responsible for its Project Outreach. Author of Exit Counseling: A Family Intervention, co-editor of The Boston Movement: Critical Perspectives on the International Churches of Christ, and co-author of “Ethical Standards for Thought Reform Consultants,” Ms. Giambalvo has written and lectured extensively on cult-related topics. (affcarol@worldnet.att.net)
Lorna Goldberg, M.S.W., L. C. S. W., a psychoanalyst in private practice with children, adolescents, and adults. She has co-led a support group for ex-cult members with her husband, William, for over 25 years. She is on the Board of Directors of ICSA/ICSA and is Dean of Faculty, Institute for Psychoanalytic Studies, Teaneck, New Jersey. She has written extensively for social work and ICSA publications. (Lorna@blgoldberg.com)
William Goldberg, M.S.W., L.C.S.W., a therapist in private practice, has co-led a support group for ex-cult members with his wife, Lorna, for over 25 years. He is Director of the Community Support Center and The Young Adult Center of the Rockland County (NY) Department of Mental Health. Mr. Goldberg is an Adjunct Professor in the Social Work Department of Dominican College. (Bill@blgoldberg.com)
Rosanne Henry, M.A., L.P.C., a member of ICSA's Board of Directors, is a psychotherapist practicing in Littleton, Colorado. For the last fifteen years she has been helping those harmed by cults through the original CAN and ICSA. Her private practice specializes in the treatment of cult survivors and their families. She is a former member of Kashi Ranch. (rosanne@cultrecover.com)
Joyce Martella is the daughter of a leader of a pseudo-Christian cultic group, ISOT, in Northern California. Born and raised in this group, she left after 25 years. She has been cut off from her siblings and mother for over 15 years. She is currently working in a Batterer's Intervention Program and pursuing a doctorate in Depth Psychology.
Michael Martella, a licensed family therapist, was raised in a Bible-based cult for 20 years, leaving in 1980. He is a licensed counselor and an expert in domestic violence treatment in San Diego, California. Over the last three years, he has conducted seven “Cult Survivor Workshops” for ex-cult members, and he is currently writing his doctoral dissertation on “Cult Wounds and Cult Healing.”
Surviving and Moving On After a High Demand Group Experience:
A workshop for Second-Generation Former Members
April 21 – April 23, 2006
Agenda
Friday, April 21:
4:00 – 5:00 Welcome and Introductions – Carol Giambalvo, Director of Recovery Programs, ICSA
5:30 – 7:00 Dinner
8:00 – 9:00 Critical Thinking, William Goldberg, Facilitator
9:00 Social Time
Saturday, April 22:
9:00 – 10:30 Socialization, Culture shock, Acculturation: An Overview of the Recovery Process, Michael and Joyce Martella, Facilitators
11:00 – 12:30 Evaluating Family Systems: What is healthy, what is abusive, and what was your experience? Rosanne Henry with Leona Furnari, Facilitators
1:30 – 3:30 Child/Adolescent Development: What is normal, what are the impacts in High Demand Groups; Resiliency! Leona Furnari with Rosanne Henry, Facilitators
4:00 – 6:00 The Family inside your head and the family outside your head: How to Cope with Both, Lorna and William Goldberg, Facilitators
8:00 Social Time
Sunday, April 23:
9:00 – 12:00 Relationship with Families and Others (continued), Lorna Goldberg, Facilitator
1:00 – 2:00 Wrap Up and Feedback, Carol Giambalvo, Facilitator